As parents, we hope to protect our kids from pain—but we also know that loss is a part of life. Whether it’s the death of a grandparent, a friend, or even a pet, grief can come into a child’s world suddenly, leaving us unsure how to help them navigate such a heavy season.

That’s why we’re recommending Someone I Love Died—a tender, biblically grounded book by Christine Harder Tangvald that helps young children (ages 4–8) understand and process the death of a loved one.

Coming off our recent Graceway grief series, this book couldn’t be more timely. Grief isn’t just something we respond to when it happens—it’s something we can gently prepare for. Having the right tools ahead of time can make all the difference.

Why This Book Belongs on Every Family’s Shelf

Originally published in 1988 and recently updated with new watercolor illustrations and practical tools, Someone I Love Died has comforted generations of families. Tangvald combines heartfelt storytelling with biblical truth to help children feel safe, seen, and spiritually supported in the midst of loss.

Unlike books that avoid the topic or offer vague reassurances, this one speaks directly and compassionately to a child’s questions. It brings the hope of Jesus into the hardest moments of life and reminds kids (and parents) that God is near to the brokenhearted.

What Makes This Book So Special

It speaks your child’s language – Simple, age-appropriate wording helps children grasp complex emotions without being overwhelmed.
It’s grounded in God’s truth – The book reminds children that Jesus understands sadness and walks with them through grief.
It’s interactive – Kids can create a memory book of their loved one, giving them a beautiful and therapeutic outlet to process emotions.
It supports parents – With practical guides in the back, this is as much a resource for adults as it is a comfort for kids.
It turns grief into healing – Families often use this book not just to cope, but to grow closer together in the midst of sorrow.

A Tool for Today—and Tomorrow
Whether your family is currently walking through loss or you simply want to be prepared for when that day comes, Someone I Love Died is a gentle yet powerful guide. It’s the kind of book you’ll be grateful to have on hand when your child’s heart needs it most.

If grief has touched your family—or someone close to you—this book offers a way to walk through it with faith, love, and compassion. And if not, consider reading it before it’s needed. Because part of parenting well is being ready for the hard conversations—especially the ones that bring healing.

You can find copies online, at Christian bookstores, or even consider gifting one to a family who might be hurting right now.

Let’s be the kind of families that bring comfort, truth, and hope into life’s hardest moments—starting with the hearts of our children. ❤️

Someone I Love Died

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